What should I wear?
Should I stop by when they are outside?
Should I ring their doorbell?
You may also find that you are analyzing the objects they own to determine what kind of person they are. It is the luck of the draw when meeting the neighbors. My husband and I finally took a courageous leap and bought a home a year ago. At first we didn't have a single neighbor on our street and now the street is full. We are happy to announce that we got lucky! Our neighbors are close to our age and interested in the same things we are. How we met is a not as seamless as you might think though.
A chain of events happened when we moved into our new home, one of them being a puppy appearing on our back patio. This seemed to be a great thing because we were thinking of getting a second dog. That little pup was full of surprises and played a central role in how we met our neighbors.
Our new puppy which we named Smalls was quite a handful. He was used to the outdoors life and tore our carpet, busted through a metal pronged crate, and destroyed every remote we owned. As a temporary solution we would leave the dogs outside when we had to leave. One day while sitting at home our doorbell rang and when I looked through the peep whole I noticed the man as our neighbor.
Sweet Puppy Smalls with humans around, Smalls the Hurricane when no one is looking. |
Me: "Hi, I'm Cameo"
(We shake hands.)
Neighbor:"So, I stopped by to let you know your black and white dog (that would be Smalls) has been digging under our fence. He has been coming into our yard and playing with our dog."
My smile immediately disappeared and I could feel my face getting flush, I was so embarrassed!
Neighbor: "It hasn't been that big of a deal, I have been trying to cover up the whole on my side but he keeps digging under. I stopped by to let you know because now he is starting to dig under our gate to get out."
Me: " Oh my gosh! I am so sorry. We will take care of that."
Neighbor: "Thanks. Oh, also, my wife says she thought she heard one of our squeak toys on your side of the fence."
Me: "Really? If I see any of your toys I'll throw them over."
Neighbor: "Thanks. Have a nice day."
I went straight to the background and sure enough, there were the neighbor's toys. Smalls was a thief!
I threw over an Angry Birds squeak toy and frisbee he drug under the fence on his way back. I went inside and said "Your killing me Smalls!" He lived up to the name.
Our neighbors turned out to be very understanding and we are thankful for that. I hope you and your neighbors get along.